Marriage thrives on Holistic Intimacy—an intertwining of emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and physical bonds. True intimacy grows from trust, shared purpose, and vulnerability. While physical intimacy fuels connection, it’s the harmony of all dimensions that creates a fulfilling relationship. By embracing love, respect, and freedom, we nurture marriages that enrich the soul and inspire genuine connection.
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In 2020, I left a deeply unhealthy 41-year marriage, finding liberation through divorce in 2021 and healing by 2024. Divorce, though challenging, can be a courageous path to freedom, growth, and genuine happiness. Often stigmatized as failure, it’s time we view divorce as an essential choice when relationships become toxic or unrepairable. Removing the stigma allows individuals to prioritize well-being, embrace authenticity, and approach marriage as a daily choice rooted in love, not obligation. Divorce isn’t easy, but it can be the first step toward a healthier, more fulfilling life—an act of courage that aligns with truth and personal values.
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Jólabókaflóð: The Joy of a Bookish Christmas TraditionImagine a Christmas Eve surrounded by candlelight, a cozy blanket, and the crackling of a fire—all while you’re immersed in the pages of a new book. This magical tradition, known as Jólabókaflóð (pronounced yo-la-bok-a-flothe), or "The Christmas Book Flood," comes from Iceland. Every year, Icelanders exchange books on Christmas Eve and spend the night reading and drinking hot chocolate or spiced mulled wine or cider.
This custom began during World War II when imports were restricted, but paper was one of the few things not rationed. Books became the perfect Christmas gift, and the tradition stuck. Even today, the majority of books in Iceland are sold between September and December, leading up to the festive season. It’s a beautiful way to connect with family and escape into the world of stories during the holiday.
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